1If therefore there is any exhortation in Christ, if any consolation of love, if any fellowship of the Spirit, if any tender mercies and compassion, 2make my joy full by being like-minded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind; 3doing nothing through rivalry or through conceit, but in humility, each counting others better than himself; 4each of you not just looking to his own things, but each of you also to the things of others.
5Have this in your mind, which was also in Christ Jesus, 6who, existing in the form of God, didn’t consider equality with God a thing to be grasped, 7but emptied himself, taking the form of a servant, being made in the likeness of men. 8And being found in human form, he humbled himself, becoming obedient to the point of death, yes, the death of the cross. 9Therefore God also highly exalted him, and gave to him the name which is above every name, 10that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of those in heaven, those on earth, and those under the earth, 11and that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.
12So then, my beloved, even as you have always obeyed, not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling. 13For it is God who works in you both to will and to work for his good pleasure.
14Do all things without complaining and arguing, 15that you may become blameless and harmless, children of God without defect in the middle of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you are seen as lights in the world, 16holding up the word of life, that I may have something to boast in the day of Christ that I didn’t run in vain nor labor in vain. 17Yes, and if I am poured out on the sacrifice and service of your faith, I am glad and rejoice with you all. 18In the same way, you also should be glad and rejoice with me.
19But I hope in the Lord Jesus to send Timothy to you soon, that I also may be cheered up when I know how you are doing. 20For I have no one else like-minded, who will truly care about you. 21For they all seek their own, not the things of Jesus Christ. 22But you know that he has proved himself. As a child serves a father, so he served with me in furtherance of the Good News. 23Therefore I hope to send him at once, as soon as I see how it will go with me. 24But I trust in the Lord that I myself also will come shortly.
25But I thought it necessary to send to you Epaphroditus, my brother, fellow worker, fellow soldier, and your apostle and servant of my need, 26since he longed for you all, and was very troubled because you had heard that he was sick. 27For indeed he was sick nearly to death, but God had mercy on him, and not on him only, but on me also, that I might not have sorrow on sorrow. 28I have sent him therefore the more diligently, that when you see him again, you may rejoice, and that I may be the less sorrowful. 29Receive him therefore in the Lord with all joy, and hold such people in honor, 30because for the work of Christ he came near to death, risking his life to supply that which was lacking in your service toward me.
The Book of Philemon, a brief yet profound letter by the Apostle Paul, showcases the gospel’s transformative power in human relationships. Written to Philemon, a wealthy Christian of the city of Colossae (pronounced Col-O-sa-ee) in what today is the country of Turkey, it pleads for Onesimus, his runaway slave turned believer. Penned during Paul’s Roman imprisonment in AD 57–59, this personal appeal addresses forgiveness, reconciliation, and equality in Christ. This letter challenges Christians to embody Christ’s love amid broken systems and fractured relationships.
Paul wrote Philemon during his Roman imprisonment in AD 57–59, under house arrest (Acts 28:30). Despite confinement, he preached boldly (Philippians 1:12-13) and authored five powerful letters, Ephesians, Philippians, Colossians, (a lost letter to Laodicea, pronounced La-oh-DEEK-ya) and Philemon. Paul’s companion Epaphroditus carried Philippians to the Macedonian city of Philippi (Philippians 2:25-30), while another companion, Tychicus, along with Onesimus, delivered Colossians and Philemon to Colossae (Colossians 4:7-9). Epaphras, a Colossian leader and Paul’s “fellow prisoner” (Philemon 1:23), was in Rome, praying fervently for the churches in Colossae, Laodicea, and Hierapolis (Colossians 4:12-13). The letter reflects Paul’s pastoral heart.
Onesimus was a runaway slave. Knowing that in the Roman world he could be punished severely or even put to death if caught, he fled 1,200 miles away, to the largest city and melting pot in the empire, Rome. He must have felt sure that he would never be recognized or captured there. But, by divine providence, Onesimus encountered Paul in Rome, and Paul led him to the Lord. Paul regarded Onesimus his “son” in faith (v. 10). The irony of this is heightened by the fact that Paul knew Philemon, Onesimus’ master, intimately (he seems also to have led him to the Lord). The conversion of both master and slave shows the gospel’s redemptive power, akin to the prodigal son’s return (Luke 15:11-32). Onesimus, once “useless” to Philemon, became “useful” to both Paul and the church (v. 11), highlighting God’s ability to redeem broken lives.
Paul’s tone in this letter is pastoral and humble, opting for persuasion over his apostolic authority—his God-given right to command (v. 8). Appealing “for love’s sake” (v. 9), he offers to repay Onesimus’ debts (meaning his value as a slave stolen from his master by Onesimus’ flight, v. 18) while noting Philemon’s spiritual debt to him (for leading him to salvation in Christ, v. 19). This is not manipulation but spiritual fatherhood, urging Philemon to see Onesimus as a “beloved brother” (v. 16). Paul suggests a divine purpose: Onesimus’ flight led to his salvation, so Philemon might receive him “forever” in Christ (v. 15). This echoes Paul’s own redemption on the Damascus Road (Acts 9), where God turned rebellion into purpose.
Philemon is often scrutinized for its stance on slavery, a cornerstone of the Roman economy. Paul doesn’t condemn slavery outright but lays the groundwork for its undoing. In Galatians 3:28, he declares, “There is neither slave nor free… in Christ Jesus,” asserting spiritual equality. In 1 Corinthians 7:21-23, he encourages slaves to seek freedom if possible, framing believers as “Christ’s slaves.” In Philemon, Onesimus’s new status as a brother redefines his relationship with Philemon. Paul’s counsel to slaves (Ephesians 6:5) and masters (Colossians 4:1) operates within a broken system, urging justice and love, not endorsing slavery itself.
Modern readers may find Paul’s indirect approach unsatisfying, given slavery’s atrocities. Yet, his strategy was transformative: by changing hearts, the gospel reshapes society over time. Philemon subtly challenges slavery through gospel-driven reconciliation, not political revolt, as the failure of the Slave War led by Spartacus proved.
Onesimus’s 1,200-mile journey back to Colossae with Tychicus must have been fraught with anxiety. We can imagine a tense moment in Rome as Paul prepared Onesimus for the task:
“Onesimus,” Paul might have said, “I want you to go with Tychicus to Ephesus, Laodicea, and Colossae, taking my letters.”
“Colossae?” Onesimus may have asked, eyes wide, voice trembling. “Paul, you know I’m a runaway slave. If I return, my master Philemon might put me to death!”
“He might. But I don’t think he will. I’ve written him this letter.”
Onesimus clutched the sealed parchment, heart pounding. “What’s in it?”
“It’s private,” Paul replied, “between Philemon, a man I led to the Lord, and me. Trust in God, Onesimus. This letter carries His grace.”
“Do you think a letter will do it?” Onesimus asked, doubt lingering.
“I do,” Paul said, placing a hand on his shoulder. “Go with God. He goes with you.”
“I hope so,” Onesimus said, fearing the unknown.
The journey—by sea from Rome’s port, Ostia, to Asia Minor, then inland to Colossae—tested Onesimus’ faith. Balancing the risk of his life with faith, his return embodied trust in Paul’s mediation and God’s providence. Philemon, receiving the letter, faced a momentous choice: to forgive and embrace Onesimus as a brother, reflecting Christ’s love, or to turn him over to the authorities, as an example to other slaves who might be tempted to abscond. In the Roman world, where runaway slaves faced crucifixion or branding, Philemon’s decision would reveal the gospel’s power to transform hearts and defy cultural norms.
How did Philemon respond? The fact that Philemon preserved the letter and that we possess a copy of it suggests that Philemon did as Paul asked. If he had not done so, he probably would have destroyed the letter.
Church tradition, recorded by Ignatius (c. AD 110), claims Onesimus became Ephesus’ bishop, implying that he not only remained free but became an important leader. This aligns with the letter’s message: transformed relationships testify to the gospel’s power.
Philemon offers timeless principles for Christian living:
Reflection: Where can you foster reconciliation or challenge injustice in your relationships or community? Philemon models how the gospel transforms not just individuals but societies, one relationship at a time.