1Now before the feast of the Passover, Jesus, knowing that his time had come that he would depart from this world to the Father, having loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the end. 2During supper, the devil having already put into the heart of Judas Iscariot, Simon’s son, to betray him, 3Jesus, knowing that the Father had given all things into his hands, and that he came from God and was going to God, 4arose from supper, and laid aside his outer garments. He took a towel and wrapped a towel around his waist. 5Then he poured water into the basin, and began to wash the disciples’ feet and to wipe them with the towel that was wrapped around him. 6Then he came to Simon Peter. He said to him, “Lord, do you wash my feet?”
7Jesus answered him, “You don’t know what I am doing now, but you will understand later.”
8Peter said to him, “You will never wash my feet!”
Jesus answered him, “If I don’t wash you, you have no part with me.”
9Simon Peter said to him, “Lord, not my feet only, but also my hands and my head!”
10Jesus said to him, “Someone who has bathed only needs to have his feet washed, but is completely clean. You are clean, but not all of you.” 11For he knew him who would betray him; therefore he said, “You are not all clean.” 12So when he had washed their feet, put his outer garment back on, and sat down again, he said to them, “Do you know what I have done to you? 13You call me, ‘Teacher’ and ‘Lord.’ You say so correctly, for so I am. 14If I then, the Lord and the Teacher, have washed your feet, you also ought to wash one another’s feet. 15For I have given you an example, that you should also do as I have done to you. 16Most certainly I tell you, a servant is not greater than his lord, neither is one who is sent greater than he who sent him. 17If you know these things, blessed are you if you do them. 18I don’t speak concerning all of you. I know whom I have chosen; but that the Scripture may be fulfilled, ‘He who eats bread with me has lifted up his heel against me.’ 19From now on, I tell you before it happens, that when it happens, you may believe that I am he. 20Most certainly I tell you, he who receives whomever I send, receives me; and he who receives me, receives him who sent me.”
21When Jesus had said this, he was troubled in spirit, and testified, “Most certainly I tell you that one of you will betray me.”
22The disciples looked at one another, perplexed about whom he spoke. 23One of his disciples, whom Jesus loved, was at the table, leaning against Jesus’ breast. 24Simon Peter therefore beckoned to him, and said to him, “Tell us who it is of whom he speaks.”
25He, leaning back, as he was, on Jesus’ breast, asked him, “Lord, who is it?”
26Jesus therefore answered, “It is he to whom I will give this piece of bread when I have dipped it.” So when he had dipped the piece of bread, he gave it to Judas, the son of Simon Iscariot. 27After the piece of bread, then Satan entered into him.
Then Jesus said to him, “What you do, do quickly.”
28Now nobody at the table knew why he said this to him. 29For some thought, because Judas had the money box, that Jesus said to him, “Buy what things we need for the feast,” or that he should give something to the poor. 30Therefore having received that morsel, he went out immediately. It was night.
31When he had gone out, Jesus said, “Now the Son of Man has been glorified, and God has been glorified in him. 32If God has been glorified in him, God will also glorify him in himself, and he will glorify him immediately. 33Little children, I will be with you a little while longer. You will seek me, and as I said to the Jews, ‘Where I am going, you can’t come,’ so now I tell you. 34A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also love one another. 35By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”
36Simon Peter said to him, “Lord, where are you going?”
Jesus answered, “Where I am going, you can’t follow now, but you will follow afterwards.”
37Peter said to him, “Lord, why can’t I follow you now? I will lay down my life for you.”
38Jesus answered him, “Will you lay down your life for me? Most certainly I tell you, the rooster won’t crow until you have denied me three times.
The Book of Philemon, a brief yet profound letter by the Apostle Paul, showcases the gospel’s transformative power in human relationships. Written to Philemon, a wealthy Christian of the city of Colossae (pronounced Col-O-sa-ee) in what today is the country of Turkey, it pleads for Onesimus, his runaway slave turned believer. Penned during Paul’s Roman imprisonment in AD 57–59, this personal appeal addresses forgiveness, reconciliation, and equality in Christ. This letter challenges Christians to embody Christ’s love amid broken systems and fractured relationships.
Paul wrote Philemon during his Roman imprisonment in AD 57–59, under house arrest (Acts 28:30). Despite confinement, he preached boldly (Philippians 1:12-13) and authored five powerful letters, Ephesians, Philippians, Colossians, (a lost letter to Laodicea, pronounced La-oh-DEEK-ya) and Philemon. Paul’s companion Epaphroditus carried Philippians to the Macedonian city of Philippi (Philippians 2:25-30), while another companion, Tychicus, along with Onesimus, delivered Colossians and Philemon to Colossae (Colossians 4:7-9). Epaphras, a Colossian leader and Paul’s “fellow prisoner” (Philemon 1:23), was in Rome, praying fervently for the churches in Colossae, Laodicea, and Hierapolis (Colossians 4:12-13). The letter reflects Paul’s pastoral heart.
Onesimus was a runaway slave. Knowing that in the Roman world he could be punished severely or even put to death if caught, he fled 1,200 miles away, to the largest city and melting pot in the empire, Rome. He must have felt sure that he would never be recognized or captured there. But, by divine providence, Onesimus encountered Paul in Rome, and Paul led him to the Lord. Paul regarded Onesimus his “son” in faith (v. 10). The irony of this is heightened by the fact that Paul knew Philemon, Onesimus’ master, intimately (he seems also to have led him to the Lord). The conversion of both master and slave shows the gospel’s redemptive power, akin to the prodigal son’s return (Luke 15:11-32). Onesimus, once “useless” to Philemon, became “useful” to both Paul and the church (v. 11), highlighting God’s ability to redeem broken lives.
Paul’s tone in this letter is pastoral and humble, opting for persuasion over his apostolic authority—his God-given right to command (v. 8). Appealing “for love’s sake” (v. 9), he offers to repay Onesimus’ debts (meaning his value as a slave stolen from his master by Onesimus’ flight, v. 18) while noting Philemon’s spiritual debt to him (for leading him to salvation in Christ, v. 19). This is not manipulation but spiritual fatherhood, urging Philemon to see Onesimus as a “beloved brother” (v. 16). Paul suggests a divine purpose: Onesimus’ flight led to his salvation, so Philemon might receive him “forever” in Christ (v. 15). This echoes Paul’s own redemption on the Damascus Road (Acts 9), where God turned rebellion into purpose.
Philemon is often scrutinized for its stance on slavery, a cornerstone of the Roman economy. Paul doesn’t condemn slavery outright but lays the groundwork for its undoing. In Galatians 3:28, he declares, “There is neither slave nor free… in Christ Jesus,” asserting spiritual equality. In 1 Corinthians 7:21-23, he encourages slaves to seek freedom if possible, framing believers as “Christ’s slaves.” In Philemon, Onesimus’s new status as a brother redefines his relationship with Philemon. Paul’s counsel to slaves (Ephesians 6:5) and masters (Colossians 4:1) operates within a broken system, urging justice and love, not endorsing slavery itself.
Modern readers may find Paul’s indirect approach unsatisfying, given slavery’s atrocities. Yet, his strategy was transformative: by changing hearts, the gospel reshapes society over time. Philemon subtly challenges slavery through gospel-driven reconciliation, not political revolt, as the failure of the Slave War led by Spartacus proved.
Onesimus’s 1,200-mile journey back to Colossae with Tychicus must have been fraught with anxiety. We can imagine a tense moment in Rome as Paul prepared Onesimus for the task:
“Onesimus,” Paul might have said, “I want you to go with Tychicus to Ephesus, Laodicea, and Colossae, taking my letters.”
“Colossae?” Onesimus may have asked, eyes wide, voice trembling. “Paul, you know I’m a runaway slave. If I return, my master Philemon might put me to death!”
“He might. But I don’t think he will. I’ve written him this letter.”
Onesimus clutched the sealed parchment, heart pounding. “What’s in it?”
“It’s private,” Paul replied, “between Philemon, a man I led to the Lord, and me. Trust in God, Onesimus. This letter carries His grace.”
“Do you think a letter will do it?” Onesimus asked, doubt lingering.
“I do,” Paul said, placing a hand on his shoulder. “Go with God. He goes with you.”
“I hope so,” Onesimus said, fearing the unknown.
The journey—by sea from Rome’s port, Ostia, to Asia Minor, then inland to Colossae—tested Onesimus’ faith. Balancing the risk of his life with faith, his return embodied trust in Paul’s mediation and God’s providence. Philemon, receiving the letter, faced a momentous choice: to forgive and embrace Onesimus as a brother, reflecting Christ’s love, or to turn him over to the authorities, as an example to other slaves who might be tempted to abscond. In the Roman world, where runaway slaves faced crucifixion or branding, Philemon’s decision would reveal the gospel’s power to transform hearts and defy cultural norms.
How did Philemon respond? The fact that Philemon preserved the letter and that we possess a copy of it suggests that Philemon did as Paul asked. If he had not done so, he probably would have destroyed the letter.
Church tradition, recorded by Ignatius (c. AD 110), claims Onesimus became Ephesus’ bishop, implying that he not only remained free but became an important leader. This aligns with the letter’s message: transformed relationships testify to the gospel’s power.
Philemon offers timeless principles for Christian living:
Reflection: Where can you foster reconciliation or challenge injustice in your relationships or community? Philemon models how the gospel transforms not just individuals but societies, one relationship at a time.