1Paul, a prisoner of Christ Jesus, and Timothy our brother, to Philemon, our beloved fellow worker, 2to the beloved Apphia, to Archippus our fellow soldier, and to the assembly in your house: 3Grace to you and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.
4I thank my God always, making mention of you in my prayers, 5hearing of your love and of the faith which you have toward the Lord Jesus and toward all the saints, 6that the fellowship of your faith may become effective in the knowledge of every good thing which is in us in Christ Jesus. 7For we have much joy and comfort in your love, because the hearts of the saints have been refreshed through you, brother.
8Therefore though I have all boldness in Christ to command you that which is appropriate, 9yet for love’s sake I rather appeal to you, being such a one as Paul, the aged, but also a prisoner of Jesus Christ. 10I appeal to you for my child Onesimus, whom I have become the father of in my chains, 11who once was useless to you, but now is useful to you and to me. 12I am sending him back. Therefore receive him, that is, my own heart, 13whom I desired to keep with me, that on your behalf he might serve me in my chains for the Good News. 14But I was willing to do nothing without your consent, that your goodness would not be as of necessity, but of free will. 15For perhaps he was therefore separated from you for a while that you would have him forever, 16no longer as a slave, but more than a slave, a beloved brother—especially to me, but how much rather to you, both in the flesh and in the Lord.
17If then you count me a partner, receive him as you would receive me. 18But if he has wronged you at all or owes you anything, put that to my account. 19I, Paul, write this with my own hand: I will repay it (not to mention to you that you owe to me even your own self besides). 20Yes, brother, let me have joy from you in the Lord. Refresh my heart in the Lord.
21Having confidence in your obedience, I write to you, knowing that you will do even beyond what I say.
22Also, prepare a guest room for me, for I hope that through your prayers I will be restored to you.
23Epaphras, my fellow prisoner in Christ Jesus, greets you, 24as do Mark, Aristarchus, Demas, and Luke, my fellow workers.
25The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit. Amen.
The Book of Philemon, a brief yet profound letter by the Apostle Paul, showcases the gospel’s transformative power in human relationships. Written to Philemon, a wealthy Christian of the city of Colossae (pronounced Col-O-sa-ee) in what today is the country of Turkey, it pleads for Onesimus, his runaway slave turned believer. Penned during Paul’s Roman imprisonment in AD 57–59, this personal appeal addresses forgiveness, reconciliation, and equality in Christ. This letter challenges Christians to embody Christ’s love amid broken systems and fractured relationships.
Paul wrote Philemon during his Roman imprisonment in AD 57–59, under house arrest (Acts 28:30). Despite confinement, he preached boldly (Philippians 1:12–13) and authored five powerful letters, Ephesians, Philippians, Colossians, (a lost letter to Laodicea, pronounced La-oh-DEEK-ya) and Philemon. Paul’s companion Epaphroditus carried Philippians to the Macedonian city of Philippi (Philippians 2:25–30), while another companion, Tychicus, along with Onesimus, delivered Colossians and Philemon to Colossae (Colossians 4:7–9). Epaphras, a Colossian leader and Paul’s “fellow prisoner” (Philemon 1:23), was in Rome, praying fervently for the churches in Colossae, Laodicea, and Hierapolis (Colossians 4:12–13). The letter reflects Paul’s pastoral heart.
Onesimus was a runaway slave. Knowing that in the Roman world he could be punished severely or even put to death if caught, he fled 1,200 miles away, to the largest city and melting pot in the empire, Rome. He must have felt sure that he would never be recognized or captured there. But, by divine providence, Onesimus encountered Paul in Rome, and Paul led him to the Lord. Paul regarded Onesimus his “son” in faith (v. 10). The irony of this is heightened by the fact that Paul knew Philemon, Onesimus’ master, intimately (he seems also to have led him to the Lord). The conversion of both master and slave shows the gospel’s redemptive power, akin to the prodigal son’s return (Luke 15:11–32). Onesimus, once “useless” to Philemon, became “useful” to both Paul and the church (v. 11), highlighting God’s ability to redeem broken lives.
Paul’s tone in this letter is pastoral and humble, opting for persuasion over his apostolic authority—his God-given right to command (v. 8). Appealing “for love’s sake” (v. 9), he offers to repay Onesimus’ debts (meaning his value as a slave stolen from his master by Onesimus’ flight, v. 18) while noting Philemon’s spiritual debt to him (for leading him to salvatiion in Christ, v. 19). This is not manipulation but spiritual fatherhood, urging Philemon to see Onesimus as a “beloved brother” (v. 16). Paul suggests a divine purpose: Onesimus’ flight led to his salvation, so Philemon might receive him “forever” in Christ (v. 15). This echoes Paul’s own redemption on the Damascus Road (Acts 9), where God turned rebellion into purpose.
Philemon is often scrutinized for its stance on slavery, a cornerstone of the Roman economy. Paul doesn’t condemn slavery outright but lays the groundwork for its undoing. In Galatians 3:28, he declares, “There is neither slave nor free… in Christ Jesus,” asserting spiritual equality. In 1 Corinthians 7:21–23, he encourages slaves to seek freedom if possible, framing believers as “Christ’s slaves.” In Philemon, Onesimus’s new status as a brother redefines his relationship with Philemon. Paul’s counsel to slaves (Ephesians 6:5) and masters (Colossians 4:1) operates within a broken system, urging justice and love, not endorsing slavery itself.
Modern readers may find Paul’s indirect approach unsatisfying, given slavery’s atrocities. Yet, his strategy was transformative: by changing hearts, the gospel reshapes society over time. Philemon subtly challenges slavery through gospel-driven reconciliation, not political revolt, which, as the failure of the Slave War led by Spartacus proved.
Onesimus’s 1,200-mile journey back to Colossae with Tychicus must have been fraught with anxiety. We can imagine a tense moment in Rome as Paul prepared Onesimus for the task:
“Onesimus,” Paul might have said, “I want you to go with Tychicus to Ephesus, Laodicea, and Colossae, taking my letters.”
“Colossae?” Onesimus may have asked, eyes wide, voice trembling. “Paul, you know I’m a runaway slave. If I return, my master Philemon might put me to death!”
“He might. But I don’t think he will. I’ve written him this letter.”
Onesimus clutched the sealed parchment, heart pounding. “What’s in it?”
“It’s private,” Paul replied, “between Philemon, a man I led to the Lord, and me. Trust in God, Onesimus. This letter carries His grace.”
“Do you think a letter will do it?” Onesimus asked, doubt lingering.
“I do,” Paul said, placing a hand on his shoulder. “Go with God. He goes with you.”
“I hope so,” Onesimus said, fearing the unknown.
The journey—by sea from Rome’s port, Ostia, to Asia Minor, then inland to Colossae—tested Onesimus’ faith. Balancing the risk of his life with faith, his return embodied trust in Paul’s mediation and God’s providence. Philemon, receiving the letter, faced a momentous choice: to forgive and embrace Onesimus as a brother, reflecting Christ’s love, or to turn him over to the authorities, as an example to other slaves who might be tempted to abscond. In the Roman world, where runaway slaves faced crucifixion or branding, Philemon’s decision would reveal the gospel’s power to transform hearts and defy cultural norms.
How did Philemon respond? The fact that Philemon preserved the letter and that we possess a copy of it suggests that Philemon did as Paul asked. If he had not done so, he probably would have destroyed the letter.
Church tradition, recorded by Ignatius (c. AD 110), claims Onesimus became Ephesus’ bishop, implying that he not only remained free but became an important leader. This aligns with the letter’s message: transformed relationships testify to the gospel’s power.
Philemon offers timeless principles for Christian living:
Reflection: Where can you foster reconciliation or challenge injustice in your relationships or community? Philemon models how the gospel transforms not just individuals but societies, one relationship at a time.