1Paul, a prisoner of Christ Jesus, and Timothy our brother, to Philemon, our beloved fellow worker, 2to the beloved Apphia, to Archippus our fellow soldier, and to the assembly in your house: 3Grace to you and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.
4I thank my God always, making mention of you in my prayers, 5hearing of your love and of the faith which you have toward the Lord Jesus and toward all the saints, 6that the fellowship of your faith may become effective in the knowledge of every good thing which is in us in Christ Jesus. 7For we have much joy and comfort in your love, because the hearts of the saints have been refreshed through you, brother.
8Therefore though I have all boldness in Christ to command you that which is appropriate, 9yet for love’s sake I rather appeal to you, being such a one as Paul, the aged, but also a prisoner of Jesus Christ. 10I appeal to you for my child Onesimus, whom I have become the father of in my chains, 11who once was useless to you, but now is useful to you and to me. 12I am sending him back. Therefore receive him, that is, my own heart, 13whom I desired to keep with me, that on your behalf he might serve me in my chains for the Good News. 14But I was willing to do nothing without your consent, that your goodness would not be as of necessity, but of free will. 15For perhaps he was therefore separated from you for a while that you would have him forever, 16no longer as a slave, but more than a slave, a beloved brother—especially to me, but how much rather to you, both in the flesh and in the Lord.
17If then you count me a partner, receive him as you would receive me. 18But if he has wronged you at all or owes you anything, put that to my account. 19I, Paul, write this with my own hand: I will repay it (not to mention to you that you owe to me even your own self besides). 20Yes, brother, let me have joy from you in the Lord. Refresh my heart in the Lord.
21Having confidence in your obedience, I write to you, knowing that you will do even beyond what I say.
22Also, prepare a guest room for me, for I hope that through your prayers I will be restored to you.
23Epaphras, my fellow prisoner in Christ Jesus, greets you, 24as do Mark, Aristarchus, Demas, and Luke, my fellow workers.
25The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit. Amen.
Love (Gk. ἀγαπάω, agapao, ἀγάπη, agape). (17:26; Jn 3:16; Rom 5:8, 1 John 2:5, 15) Strong’s 26
The verb and noun forms of this word are each used well over 100 times in the NT, so it is a fairly common word. It is used commonly outside both the NT and Christian literature as well. In non-Christian literature, this word is used much like the term “love” in English, referring to affection for people, things, etc. Christians adopted this word, following Jesus’ use of it, and gave it a narrower and more particular meaning, “divine love.” It is always used in this particularly Christian way in the NT. Divine love is always sourced in God, and is an expected expression of a Christian’s love for God and other Christians. The essence of this divine love is that it affirms eternal and infinite value. When the NT forbids this love, it always has a temporal object in mind (e.g. honored seats, the world). When it encourages it, there is always an object of eternal and infinite value in view, that is, God or humans. Finite human beings are of infinite value simply because God created them in His own image, forever. God affirms that His image, a human being, is of infinite and eternal value (John 3:16). Christians, likewise, must make the same affirmation of love with respect to every human being, especially believers (1 John 4:7, 8).